But now I’m wondering…have I missed out on something all my life? Does this happen to other people? Is the term “Soul Mate” real? Is it possible to find someone to connect with like that (who’s not 30 years younger)? If so, I’d put myself back into the market and search the ends of the earth to have a feeling like that again. I have no desires to be with this girl…that’s what she is, a girl. Please don’t misunderstand what I’m asking here. Is that supposed to happen before you get married? Is it common? Maybe that’s why my marriage failed. I was married for 20 years and had other serious relationships prior to that and I NEVER felt anything like that with any of them.
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Then we both got up and joined the rest of the party.Įvan, what the hell happened there? It kept me up all last night, woke me this morning…it was so heavy on my mind. Her: Yeah, it’s like…I just looked into your soul. Me: I know, I felt it too, that’s why I turned away…it like freaked me out. Here is how the conversation then went…she spoke first: Her eyes got big, as did mine, and I was so freaked out that I quickly turned my head and looked at the fire.
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Ok, this is really going to sound like I’ve lost my mind because I don’t quite know how to explain it…then…it was like I was “in her mind” or somehow “connected” to her.
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There were no other noises but me talking. I was looking into her eyes talking, when, and this is going to sound really stupid, the rest of the activities and people around us…like…disappeared. The same thing happened to her, at the same time. We were looking at each other while discussing the way the sparks were floating up in the air, when suddenly something happened that has never happened to me with any woman in my life. We’ve always been able to talk like a dad would to a daughter, just about this and that, or anything that might come up. I happened to be sitting by a 19-year old girl (I’m pushing 50) that I know through family and friends.
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With that said, I have to ask you about something that happened last night at a campfire with some friends and family. I am very content being single and I’m not or at least thought I wasn’t, looking for another. I was married for 20 years then our marriage ended quite suddenly. First let me say, I am in no way shape or form a “creeper” or some sort of “sick-o”, and I have no desire to be with a woman that’s 30 years younger than me.